Tuesday, May 12, 2009

How Can Fake Information Harm You on Free Dating Sites

Four years ago, when I first joined free dating sites, I was not sure about their security policies and hence, I was scared of providing details of my personal info on my profile. But the time has changed a lot; now I can realize that your personal info and your pictures are crucial for your success on online dating.

When I was new to free dating sites, I had a misconception that online dating might be related to something porn. My aim of being on those free dating sites was just to have fun. Who knew that it would create the most memorable experience of my life!

It was the time when I used to flirt with a girl on those online dating sites. One of the girls I was not familiar with was Kelley; actually, I was not much impressed with her picture on her profile. Probably, I thought she was not attractive enough. Kelly would email me regularly, whereas I would occasionally reply to her emails. I was in search of hot girls and whoever I wanted to communicate with hardly showed any interest in responding to my messages. After not getting success from my efforts I was so frustrated that one day I started chatting with Kelley. Basically, I had formed the idea that she was not the kind of girl I was looking for on the free dating sites.

Our first conversation on the free dating site was very formal, but I must admit that I was really impressed with the way she communicated with me. She was interesting… and had a positive bent of mind. The conversation didn’t last for long but that had shattered my prejudice towards Kelley. Our second conversation was a really interesting one, we talked about a lot of matters and before leaving the chat, she advised me to complete my profile and add pictures to it. Yes, it is very essential that you should add some photographs on your profile to enhance your credibility.

At that time I did a mistake by adding fake info on my profile. Although I knew that it was wrong, I was happy that I was getting lots of responses after that. Kelley was so impressed that she had sent an e-card that mentioned about how she appreciated my profession and my lifestyle. Never had I known that I would fall in love with Kelly. Although she was not so attractive, she was a wonderful human being.

Unfortunately, one day Kelly discovered all about me through a Google search and didn’t want to continue this relationship. My love story ended before I could even enjoy it. The incident taught me a lot about free dating sites and the people out there on those sites.

These days, free dating sites have become concerned about privacy and security of their members. There is no reason why you should provide fake information in your profile. Of course it is necessary that you shouldn’t provide details of your personal information to the person on the other side. Free dating sites can bring you desired result if you use them properly.

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