Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Quick Tips of Online Dating for the Teenagers

Online dating is the best source of entertainment for every individual irrespective of their age. Recently, it has been found that many teenagers are paying interest in joining online dating and enjoying life out there. Unfortunately, most of them fall prey to the negative influences of the site due to their ignorance or negligence. Online dating is for everyone but, one should take utmost care while opting for online dating. Truly speaking, your first step towards online dating is to get prepared for the journey. Although online dating is a way to get fun and enjoy life in the over-burdened modern lifestyle, as a teenager you need to consider several factors of online dating before opening a new chapter in your life.

Don’t Get Influenced by the Pictures
While visiting the online dating sites, you may find pictures of glamorous boys and girls who seem to enjoy their life through online dating. But, as a matter of fact, they are normal people and the websites or the magazines that advertise the website publicize the pictures to attract audience. Don’t select a website or services only from the pictures; find the features of the sites and check if they are useful for you.

Take Your Time to Read the Profiles
It is imperative for you to choose the right profile for your online dating. You can find hundreds of profiles on a site while searching. But, you may be at risk if you just go by the photo or scanning the profile. There is no harm in spending some time and reading the profile properly and, if necessary, make a Google search to find out more about the person.

Learn Not to Compromise
First of all, while online dating, you should know likes and dislikes. If you don’t like people who smoke and drink, don’t contact the persons who are in the habit of smoking and drinking. Mention your preferences clearly and learn to say ‘NO’ to people who don’t match your criteria. It is very important that you don’t compromise with your choices. There are hundreds of profiles on the online dating sites with the right approaches that you want in your mate.

Know the Purpose of Your Online Dating

Have you joined the online dating sites for friendship, love or any other long-term relationship? Well, it is really essential that you should know your goal of online dating. Basically, teenagers opt for online dating just to have fun or friendship. It is possible to build long-term relationship online, but it takes lot of time and patience as well.

Take All the Necessary Safety Measures
As a teenager, you are more likely to get confused with your decisions and influenced by others. Hence, the crucial part of online dating is to follow the rules and instructions of the sites. Keep your parents and friends informed about your dealings on online dating. Many online dating tips and guides are also available on the Internet and you can follow them to know more about the procedures.

Make your online dating a really enjoyable process to get the most out of it.

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Tips for a Successful Beginning on Free Dating Sites

Everyone out there for online dating joins free dating sites for fun, love, romance or relationships. It has become a fashion to join free dating sites irrespective of age, gender and socio-economic class. Meeting new friends, dating and communicating with people is really a wonderful experience. However, there are some basic tips that you must follow to enjoy the excitement of free dating sites.


• Ensure that your profile is well-written without any spelling or grammatical error. Your profile is the first impression that you can create on the free dating sites for other members.
• Make your decision carefully and select the person you want to meet. Don’t hesitate to state the person you want to meet. A matured decision is important.
• Make your description precise. But it is very important that you should provide correct information about yourself. Otherwise, it may lead to complications in future.
• Be creative while sending messages. It is great to add personal touches to the messages.
• No one likes to meet serious people, hence, try to add fun and humor to attract people to your profile.
• Mention clearly what you like and what you don’t. However, ensure that no word is offensive for others on the free dating sites.
• Try to keep updating your profile from time to time to appear fresh. But don’t tamper with the facts.
• Adding photo to your profile will add credibility. It has been observed that profiles with pictures get 9 times more replies than the profiles that don’t have a photo.
• Allow others to access your personal details only when you are comfortable. Revealing personal detail on the first meet itself can be dangerous.
• Don’t make hasty judgment about people who take time to reply. Don’t block someone or feel that the person is not interested in you just because they are not available for chat this time.
• Give your preferences about the soul mates so that only people matching the criteria will contact you. Don’t try to contact with persons whose preferences are different from yours.
• Don’t include much detail bout you in your first e-mail or message. Make it short, to the point and attractive that can invoke conversation. Your emotional or serious message may create a different picture about you. Try to add humor to your messages.
• Don’t ignore any message. Try to reply as soon as possible. In case you are not interested in the profile you can send a message with a polite denial.
• Be careful while sending any message on the free dating sites. Don’t be critical about any photo or profile even while sending messages or replying. It is against the etiquettes of free dating.
• If you are interested in starting a long-term relationship with someone, don’t talk about money or business in your initial conversation. Try to know the person properly before talking anything about your business. You won’t like to befriend someone who is interested in your money and not you.

Why Online Dating is Perfect for the Shy Person

The fast paced world is for people who are proactive in their life and who look forward to experiencing new challenges. Online dating is for people who are open to accept challenges in life and also for those who are shy. There are a few people who take time to break the ice and get along with others. For them dating in real life becomes a nightmare and they escape from the sight of others despite having the desire to love and enjoy life. However, they can enjoy this experience in life if they allow themselves to go for online dating. Well, if you are among the people who are shy but looking to find a partner, love or soul mate, online dating will be the perfect choice for you.

I must agree that online dating can create both good and bad experiences for you. You need to be careful and go with the instructions of the site to avoid any hassle. Once you are aware of the tricks of successful online dating, you can create thousands of opportunities that others only anticipate. Your first step towards the journey should be selecting the best online dating site for the purpose. A professional site with good reputation will help you find someone special for you. You might be wondering about what the websites are going to offer you.

First of all, you are assured of the privacy on the website if you are selecting the right website. There are many online dating websites that are reliable and respect the privacy of their members. They also allow you to decide when you want to share your pictures and with whom. On those online dating sites, your profile is accessible to your friends or matches. There are various modes of communication that you can follow to communicate with people you like. If you want, you can keep your phone number, home address and e-mail address secret.

There are many online dating websites that offer match making systems. It is the best service that allows you to select the individuals meeting your criteria. The sites will provide you options of profiles and you can select the one you like best. It is just like match making system in real life where the match makers search for boys and girls according to the preferences of their clients. The match making system of online dating doesn’t let you get overwhelmed with the piles of profiles available on the websites. Rather, you have to make your choice from the selected profiles.

You can rely on the selection process of the online dating website as they ask you numerous useful questions about your preferences on your prospective soul mate. However, it is the communications processes which enable your relationships to grow over time. All you need is to start your conversation in a way that can create a good impression. But, that is not rocket science and you can learn it fast for the romantic relation that you dream of. For the shy people, there can’t be a better place than online dating to meet wonderful persons and start relationships.

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Tips for a Successful Beginning on Free Dating Sites

Everyone out there for online dating joins free dating sites for fun, love, romance or relationships. It has become a fashion to join free dating sites irrespective of age, gender and socio-economic class. Meeting new friends, dating and communicating with people is really a wonderful experience. However, there are some basic tips that you must follow to enjoy the excitement of free dating sites.

• Ensure that your profile is well-written without any spelling or grammatical error. Your profile is the first impression that you can create on the free dating sites for other members.
• Make your decision carefully and select the person you want to meet. Don’t hesitate to state the person you want to meet. A matured decision is important.
• Make your description precise. But it is very important that you should provide correct information about yourself. Otherwise, it may lead to complications in future.
• Be creative while sending messages. It is great to add personal touches to the messages.
• No one likes to meet serious people, hence, try to add fun and humor to attract people to your profile.
• Mention clearly what you like and what you don’t. However, ensure that no word is offensive for others on the free dating sites.
• Try to keep updating your profile from time to time to appear fresh. But don’t tamper with the facts.
• Adding photo to your profile will add credibility. It has been observed that profiles with pictures get 9 times more replies than the profiles that don’t have a photo.
• Allow others to access your personal details only when you are comfortable. Revealing personal detail on the first meet itself can be dangerous.
• Don’t make hasty judgment about people who take time to reply. Don’t block someone or feel that the person is not interested in you just because they are not available for chat this time.
• Give your preferences about the soul mates so that only people matching the criteria will contact you. Don’t try to contact with persons whose preferences are different from yours.
• Don’t include much detail bout you in your first e-mail or message. Make it short, to the point and attractive that can invoke conversation. Your emotional or serious message may create a different picture about you. Try to add humor to your messages.
• Don’t ignore any message. Try to reply as soon as possible. In case you are not interested in the profile you can send a message with a polite denial.
• Be careful while sending any message on the free dating sites. Don’t be critical about any photo or profile even while sending messages or replying. It is against the etiquettes of free dating.
• If you are interested in starting a long-term relationship with someone, don’t talk about money or business in your initial conversation. Try to know the person properly before talking anything about your business. You won’t like to befriend someone who is interested in your money and not you.

Why Online Dating is Perfect for the Shy Person

The fast paced world is for people who are proactive in their life and who look forward to experiencing new challenges. Online dating is for people who are open to accept challenges in life and also for those who are shy. There are a few people who take time to break the ice and get along with others. For them dating in real life becomes a nightmare and they escape from the sight of others despite having the desire to love and enjoy life. However, they can enjoy this experience in life if they allow themselves to go for online dating. Well, if you are among the people who are shy but looking to find a partner, love or soul mate, online dating will be the perfect choice for you.

I must agree that online dating can create both good and bad experiences for you. You need to be careful and go with the instructions of the site to avoid any hassle. Once you are aware of the tricks of successful online dating, you can create thousands of opportunities that others only anticipate. Your first step towards the journey should be selecting the best online dating site for the purpose. A professional site with good reputation will help you find someone special for you. You might be wondering about what the websites are going to offer you.

First of all, you are assured of the privacy on the website if you are selecting the right website. There are many online dating websites that are reliable and respect the privacy of their members. They also allow you to decide when you want to share your pictures and with whom. On those online dating sites, your profile is accessible to your friends or matches. There are various modes of communication that you can follow to communicate with people you like. If you want, you can keep your phone number, home address and e-mail address secret.

There are many online dating websites that offer match making systems. It is the best service that allows you to select the individuals meeting your criteria. The sites will provide you options of profiles and you can select the one you like best. It is just like match making system in real life where the match makers search for boys and girls according to the preferences of their clients. The match making system of online dating doesn’t let you get overwhelmed with the piles of profiles available on the websites. Rather, you have to make your choice from the selected profiles.

You can rely on the selection process of the online dating website as they ask you numerous useful questions about your preferences on your prospective soul mate. However, it is the communications processes which enable your relationships to grow over time. All you need is to start your conversation in a way that can create a good impression. But, that is not rocket science and you can learn it fast for the romantic relation that you dream of. For the shy people, there can’t be a better place than online dating to meet wonderful persons and start relationships.

Thursday, March 19, 2009

Thanks to Online Dating

There are still numerous misconceptions associated with online dating. Many people think it is not safe. But can you name a place on the earth where you are really safe? Anyways, it depends on the way you use online dating. For me online dating sites have been a great source of friends.

I still remember the days when I was new to online dating. I had no idea how to break the ice with strangers and I was also scared of revealing my name and other information on a website. How silly? Today, I can say myself an experienced online dater. I’ve experienced the joys and sorrows of life through online dating. Sounds ridiculous? It’s true.

I have many virtual friends, I have been making friends since the day I joined online dating sites. There is a girl, Leily, from my neighboring city; pretty, smart, slim and … well, there are many more words to describe her. I met her on an online dating site before 2 years. We would chat a lot for long. We had shared our telephone numbers as well. Talking to her over phone would be more exciting than watching a hot Hollywood Flick. Many times we would plan for date, but the destiny would bring an obstacle in our way. One year ago, I had a trip to her city for a business meetings; I was really excited to meet her.

One evening, I called her to meet me in the nearest pub. It was my first date with her and I wanted to make it memorable for her and me as well. I had taken a bouquet for her. Man alive…. I was stunned to see her, she was looking really gorgeous in the red (she’s extremely beautiful). She was also overjoyed and it was reflected on her face. We spent some exciting moments and exchanged a couple of kisses. I stayed in the city for nearly a month and we would meet everyday after our first date. One day, I took her for skiing and we spent wonderful moments there as well.

After coming back to my home town I missed her a lot. Although we would chat through online dating sites and talk over telephone the way I was enjoying her presence was missing in my life. But the almighty had planned something else for me and before six months I was pink-slipped following the trend of the economic meltdown. Searching a new job is really a difficult task for anyone in the current scenario.

I shared my problems with Leily and she solved it within a second. Surprised? Well, Leily’s father was planning to start his own business and looking for a smart manager. They asked me to join their business and I readily agreed to it. Now I’m staying with Leily and her family.

Earlier, I was thinking that online dating can build relations only. But in my case, it has solved the basic necessity of a man as well- getting a job. Anyways, thanks to online dating.

Thanks to Online Dating

There are still numerous misconceptions associated with online dating. Many people think it is not safe. But can you name a place on the earth where you are really safe? Anyways, it depends on the way you use online dating. For me online dating sites have been a great source of friends.

I still remember the days when I was new to online dating. I had no idea how to break the ice with strangers and I was also scared of revealing my name and other information on a website. How silly? Today, I can say myself an experienced online dater. I’ve experienced the joys and sorrows of life through online dating. Sounds ridiculous? It’s true.

I have many virtual friends, I have been making friends since the day I joined online dating sites. There is a girl, Leily, from my neighboring city; pretty, smart, slim and … well, there are many more words to describe her. I met her on an online dating site before 2 years. We would chat a lot for long. We had shared our telephone numbers as well. Talking to her over phone would be more exciting than watching a hot Hollywood Flick. Many times we would plan for date, but the destiny would bring an obstacle in our way. One year ago, I had a trip to her city for a business meetings; I was really excited to meet her.

One evening, I called her to meet me in the nearest pub. It was my first date with her and I wanted to make it memorable for her and me as well. I had taken a bouquet for her. Man alive…. I was stunned to see her, she was looking really gorgeous in the red (she’s extremely beautiful). She was also overjoyed and it was reflected on her face. We spent some exciting moments and exchanged a couple of kisses. I stayed in the city for nearly a month and we would meet everyday after our first date. One day, I took her for skiing and we spent wonderful moments there as well.

After coming back to my home town I missed her a lot. Although we would chat through online dating sites and talk over telephone the way I was enjoying her presence was missing in my life. But the almighty had planned something else for me and before six months I was pink-slipped following the trend of the economic meltdown. Searching a new job is really a difficult task for anyone in the current scenario.

I shared my problems with Leily and she solved it within a second. Surprised? Well, Leily’s father was planning to start his own business and looking for a smart manager. They asked me to join their business and I readily agreed to it. Now I’m staying with Leily and her family.

Earlier, I was thinking that online dating can build relations only. But in my case, it has solved the basic necessity of a man as well- getting a job. Anyways, thanks to online dating.

Friday, March 13, 2009

Online Dating Tips for Teenage Girls

Online dating is the trend of the day and these days, numerous teenage girls are dating online and meeting people through online dating sites. There are numerous instances of teenage girls being subjected to difficult situations due to lack of maturity. Most teenagers have little idea about the world and they get into online dating out of curiosity.

There is no harm if you are a teenager and want to meet people through online dating. But when you want to develop any relationship and date the person out of the online dating site you have to be careful about certain things. Here are some useful tips for the teenage girls who are out there on online dating.

Plan The Meeting Properly


Planning a meeting with the man is the crucial part of your online dating. Dating personally is not the same as dating on website. Plan the date before at least seven days so that you can prepare yourself for the meeting. Select the date, time and venue carefully and according to your convenience to avoid any future hassle.

Meet In A Public Place


You might have been meeting the man for last couple of months on theonline dating sites but it is always advisable to be alert. Avoid the person carefully who wants to meet in a secret place. Your first meeting should be in a place where lots of people frequent. Not all men are equal, but as you are in a teen age chances are high of your being misled.

Let your Parents Know About the Meeting


You are still not matured enough to take you decision. So, it is better to involve your parents or any family member in the matter. Let them know all about your online dating and meting with a man. They can better suggest you about the meeting.

Stay away from Alcohols


If the person you are meeting with offers you alcohol, try to avoid it carefully. There are chances you may lose control over yourself. Little bit of carelessness can lead to big troubles. The alcohol also can affect your judgment. So, learn the art of saying ‘no’ to people. You first date can be wonderful even without a drink.

Request a Friend to Accompany you


Online dating is full of fun and as a teenager you may find it exciting to date the man for the first time you met on online dating. But, as a matter of fact, there are numerous risks involved with it and the safest way is to ask a friend or family member to accompany you to the meeting. Your safety and security should be your precedence.

Try to Know More About him Before the Meeting


The point is not only for the teenagers but for everyone. When you are meeting someone through online dating, it is better to investigate about the person. Googling the identity of the person can solve your problem t a large extent.

Online dating is fun; a mode to access people across the world. Act smart to store some wonderful experience through online dating.

It is Essential to be Careful in Online Dating

For everyone out there for online dating, the article is a pointer. Most of us are eager to use innovative techniques, but hardly anyone of us bother to balance its upsides and downsides. Online dating is one of the best services that allow you to meet people across the world, make friendship, or develop long-term relationship with them. Theonline dating sites are developed with host of facilities for the users for their conveniences. But, if you are not aware of rules on those sites you may end up with problems for yourself. I am going to share my experience in online dating.

Just a minor mistake and the world is no more the same. It was just lack of smart work that led me to a heart break after a romantic relationship. Two years ago, I was in love with a man, Jack, I met on an online dating site. Although he was not the first person I met through the site, I had developed a romantic relationship with him after talking to him for many occasions. Before I met Jack, I had several dates with other boys I met through online dating. I had never had a bad experience dating any of them. Probably, that is why I was a little careless about getting more information about Jack.

Overall, Jack was a nice person; we got along easily with each other soon after we met on the online dating site. After chatting online for few days, we had exchanged our phone numbers. He would call me every evening and we would talk for long. We had video chats twice and this handsome man had attracted me with his personality. I was head over hill in love with Jack.

It was on our sixth date that the real identity of Jack unveiled before me. After having our dinner in a restaurant we were about to leave while Jack hold me tight to exchanged couple of kisses. Suddenly, Jeime, one of my friends, came inside the restaurant and she was stunned to find us there. Actually, Jack was Jeime’s husband and they had married before couple of months. As I had not attended her marriage and hence, I couldn’t recognize Jack. It was really an embarrassing situation for me. Had I done a Google search about Jack I could have known more about him. After that incident Jeime divorced Jack and I started hating him more than I had loved him.

Many online dating sites respect your privacy and try every means to filter the spammers. Still there are some people who can’t leave their habit of ding mischievous acts. You don’t know who they are and what their intentions are. Sitting at the other end of the computer they can mislead you with information. Hence, it is essential to do thorough research of the person before you meet them personally. Online dating is not meant to plunge anyone into troubles; rather, they have a wide range of application apart from developing relationships. The users need to be careful about certain things to create wonderful online dating experiences.

Create Your Pleasant Memories at Free Dating sites

I have found many people sharing their good and bad experiences on free dating sites, they are really nice. I also like to spend my spare time reading those interesting blogs and article that tell stories about how people found their partner through online dating sates, how they have been deceived or other funny experiences. People with pleasant experiences often praise the free dating sites, while others find these sites scams. But, my personal opinion says, they are the parts of life. You can’t say that everything goes smooth in our real life and our virtual existence across the web can lead to problem. The free dating sites can also bring you loads of fun; just you need to know the ropes of the game.

Two years back, when I was a newbie to the free dating sites, I was really skeptical about how everything works. Providing personal details was a matter of concern for me. I know that there are many free dating sites that are scams, yet there are others that cater to the need of people who want to embark on online dating. Actually, my journey to online dating sites was due to the loneliness that I was going through at that time. All my friends had girlfriends and they were hanging out every evening and enjoying their lives. I tried to break the ice with some of the girls in our college, but no relation lasted more that a week.

Frustrated with my condition, I asked a friend to help me for a blind date. It was the most embarrassing situation in my life when he laughed at me tagging me as old-fashioned. I’m also thankful to him as he suggested me of online dating and informed me about some of thefree dating sites. The single incident ushered in a new era of dating in my life. That night I logged on to the free dating sites that my friend had told and created my accounts. Yes, I was really careful about reading the instructions and tips on the sites so as to avoid any future hassles.

Today, I have many friends on those free dating sites. I have been dating many girls out there and have enjoyed meeting them personally as well. These days, my friends are jealous of me and they often ask me the secret of getting new girlfriends everyday. But, I tell them that only logging in to free dating websites will not bring you friends who will last longer, rather you have to master the skill of conversation. I am not very attractive when compared to most of my friends; still girls love me because I can talk in a way that they like. Again, you need to be honest in whatever you do.

Till date, I don’t have any bad experience being in free dating sites, even I don’t want one. If you want pleasant experiences for yourself on the free dating sites, go though the instructions and be careful.

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Online Dating Tips for Teenage Girls

Online dating is the trend of the day and these days, numerous teenage girls are dating online and meeting people through online dating sites. There are numerous instances of teenage girls being subjected to difficult situations due to lack of maturity. Most teenagers have little idea about the world and they get into online dating out of curiosity.

There is no harm if you are a teenager and want to meet people through online dating. But when you want to develop any relationship and date the person out of the online dating site you have to be careful about certain things. Here are some useful tips for the teenage girls who are out there on online dating.

Plan The Meeting Properly
Planning a meeting with the man is the crucial part of your online dating. Dating personally is not the same as dating on website. Plan the date before at least seven days so that you can prepare yourself for the meeting. Select the date, time and venue carefully and according to your convenience to avoid any future hassle.

Meet In A Public Place
You might have been meeting the man for last couple of months on the online dating sites but it is always advisable to be alert. Avoid the person carefully who wants to meet in a secret place. Your first meeting should be in a place where lots of people frequent. Not all men are equal, but as you are in a teen age chances are high of your being misled.

Let your Parents Know About the Meeting
You are still not matured enough to take you decision. So, it is better to involve your parents or any family member in the matter. Let them know all about your online dating and meting with a man. They can better suggest you about the meeting.

Stay away from Alcohols
If the person you are meeting with offers you alcohol, try to avoid it carefully. There are chances you may lose control over yourself. Little bit of carelessness can lead to big troubles. The alcohol also can affect your judgment. So, learn the art of saying ‘no’ to people. You first date can be wonderful even without a drink.

Request a Friend to Accompany you
Online dating is full of fun and as a teenager you may find it exciting to date the man for the first time you met on online dating. But, as a matter of fact, there are numerous risks involved with it and the safest way is to ask a friend or family member to accompany you to the meeting. Your safety and security should be your precedence.

Try to Know More About him Before the Meeting
The point is not only for the teenagers but for everyone. When you are meeting someone through online dating, it is better to investigate about the person. Googling the identity of the person can solve your problem t a large extent.

Online dating is fun; a mode to access people across the world. Act smart to store some wonderful experience through online dating.

It is Essential to be Careful in Online Dating

For everyone out there for online dating, the article is a pointer. Most of us are eager to use innovative techniques, but hardly anyone of us bother to balance its upsides and downsides. Online dating is one of the best services that allow you to meet people across the world, make friendship, or develop long-term relationship with them. The online dating sites are developed with host of facilities for the users for their conveniences. But, if you are not aware of rules on those sites you may end up with problems for yourself. I am going to share my experience in online dating.

Just a minor mistake and the world is no more the same. It was just lack of smart work that led me to a heart break after a romantic relationship. Two years ago, I was in love with a man, Jack, I met on an online dating site. Although he was not the first person I met through the site, I had developed a romantic relationship with him after talking to him for many occasions. Before I met Jack, I had several dates with other boys I met through online dating. I had never had a bad experience dating any of them. Probably, that is why I was a little careless about getting more information about Jack.

Overall, Jack was a nice person; we got along easily with each other soon after we met on the online dating site. After chatting online for few days, we had exchanged our phone numbers. He would call me every evening and we would talk for long. We had video chats twice and this handsome man had attracted me with his personality. I was head over hill in love with Jack.

It was on our sixth date that the real identity of Jack unveiled before me. After having our dinner in a restaurant we were about to leave while Jack hold me tight to exchanged couple of kisses. Suddenly, Jeime, one of my friends, came inside the restaurant and she was stunned to find us there. Actually, Jack was Jeime’s husband and they had married before couple of months. As I had not attended her marriage and hence, I couldn’t recognize Jack. It was really an embarrassing situation for me. Had I done a Google search about Jack I could have known more about him. After that incident Jeime divorced Jack and I started hating him more than I had loved him.

Many online dating sites respect your privacy and try every means to filter the spammers. Still there are some people who can’t leave their habit of ding mischievous acts. You don’t know who they are and what their intentions are. Sitting at the other end of the computer they can mislead you with information. Hence, it is essential to do thorough research of the person before you meet them personally. Online dating is not meant to plunge anyone into troubles; rather, they have a wide range of application apart from developing relationships. The users need to be careful about certain things to create wonderful online dating experiences.

Create Your Pleasant Memories at Free Dating sites

I have found many people sharing their good and bad experiences on free dating sites, they are really nice. I also like to spend my spare time reading those interesting blogs and article that tell stories about how people found their partner through online dating sates, how they have been deceived or other funny experiences. People with pleasant experiences often praise the free dating sites, while others find these sites scams. But, my personal opinion says, they are the parts of life. You can’t say that everything goes smooth in our real life and our virtual existence across the web can lead to problem. The free dating sites can also bring you loads of fun; just you need to know the ropes of the game.

Two years back, when I was a newbie to the free dating sites, I was really skeptical about how everything works. Providing personal details was a matter of concern for me. I know that there are many free dating sites that are scams, yet there are others that cater to the need of people who want to embark on online dating. Actually, my journey to online dating sites was due to the loneliness that I was going through at that time. All my friends had girlfriends and they were hanging out every evening and enjoying their lives. I tried to break the ice with some of the girls in our college, but no relation lasted more that a week.

Frustrated with my condition, I asked a friend to help me for a blind date. It was the most embarrassing situation in my life when he laughed at me tagging me as old-fashioned. I’m also thankful to him as he suggested me of online dating and informed me about some of the free dating sites. The single incident ushered in a new era of dating in my life. That night I logged on to the free dating sites that my friend had told and created my accounts. Yes, I was really careful about reading the instructions and tips on the sites so as to avoid any future hassles.

Today, I have many friends on those free dating sites. I have been dating many girls out there and have enjoyed meeting them personally as well. These days, my friends are jealous of me and they often ask me the secret of getting new girlfriends everyday. But, I tell them that only logging in to free dating websites will not bring you friends who will last longer, rather you have to master the skill of conversation. I am not very attractive when compared to most of my friends; still girls love me because I can talk in a way that they like. Again, you need to be honest in whatever you do.

Till date, I don’t have any bad experience being in free dating sites, even I don’t want one. If you want pleasant experiences for yourself on the free dating sites, go though the instructions and be careful.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Free Dating Sites- A Convenient Source of Finding Your Soul Mate

The first time I heard about “free dating sites”, I was surprised by the term without knowing the concept. But, I was sure that it is something that is not a normal dating where a boy and a girl would meet in a normal circumstance. I was curious to know more about it because generally I used to spend large bucks while dating girls. So I started googling to learn about free dating sites and its usages.

Oh…. I was surprise to know that people these days are using the Internet to date their boy friend or girl friend and find their prospective spouses. It’s really a great thing! You just have to log in to an online dating site and contact with other members out there. Well, the most attractive part of free dating sites is you can meet many people from different parts of the world. Now that my colleagues are always talking about free dating sites I wish I had learnt about this before some years.

Still, it is not too late. I can join the free dating sites anytime and enjoy my life out there the way I want. So, the other day when I was sitting in a leisurely mood, the thought of free dating sites struck to my mind and I hoped to the bed and used my laptop to search for some websites that allow free dating. I picked some of the websites that ranked among the top ten results of the Google search and created my accounts in them. It didn’t take much time to read through the instructions and I felt that it is important for anyone joining free dating sites to learn every aspects of online dating.

Within a week, I had many friends added to my friends’ list. Today, I was checking my account and keeping track of my friends’ list and found that most of my friends are girls and they belong to different countries. It’s amazing! Till before a month I had to look for the girls who are compatible with me and who can spend time with me whenever I need. But, these days there are many girls on the web with whom I’m enjoying virtual dating everyday. I can select the girls by looking at their profiles on the website; if I like them I can start befriending them. Isn’t it wonderful?

Yes, the most important thing while talking to a girl on the free dating sites is breaking the ice in a manner that is interesting. The art of conversation is really a great aspect and I can say I’m good at that. Perhaps, that is the reason why there are many girls on the free dating sites who are interested to talk to me online.

Personally, I feel free dating through online dating sites are the best way to start your dating. You can select the girls judging their profiles, get along with them by chatting online, and then, if both of you agree, you can meet personally and start a long-term relation. Isn’t it the convenient way to find your soul mate?

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Some Practical Online Dating Tips That Work

Since last three years I had been in the online dating sites and I have several experiences. Now I can say that I am a perfect online dating expert and I can give you several tips on online dating.

• Not all the online dating sites are trustworthy. Some sites are scams. You may get emails created by the sites that appear to be sent by any member on that site. Beware of the emails.• If you are enrolling into a paid online dating site check out their mode of payment and the cancellation policy. There are some websites where the dealing is very much confusing.• In some sites you will have to answer very few questions to match you up. Well, I think the list of criteria that I look for is too much. It’s not the look or the money that the people earn matter, I prefer to find the profiles and take a deeper look before selecting someone for my friends’ list. I feel I can better judge a person as my friend than letting someone else (the computer) do that for me. I personally feel that you should select your friends by looking into their profiles.• While selecting a site for online dating, be particular about the theme of the site. Some sites allow nudity; some are even restricted about the pictures. If you prefer to join an adult dating sites go through the instructions and guide lines that are especially meant for the users. On such sites, your may get emails with nude pictures.• Whatever site you may select, security is a major area of concern. Don’t hesitate to ask question and to make sure that the person you are talking to is the same what he says, you can Google his name and city. I can suggest this on the basis of my own experience. I have dated several men over the past three years and I can say that I have wonderful experiences. Don’t take any hasty decision that may lead you to future frustration.• While being on online dating you may come across several bad experiences. There are many people out there on the web who may create embarrassing situations for you. Be smart while choosing the site for online dating and the friends as well.• Read those instructions carefully, choose the sites that look professional and select the members by judging their profiles.• Be honest while writing your profile and uploading your picture. Learn the etiquettes and the rules on the sites. If you are providing any fake information or picture that misleads someone, it may lead to problems in future.

Online dating are the real sites for fun, but you need to be careful about so many factors. If you are turned down by any member on that site don’t worry, there is no one watching you. Just have fun make good friends and enjoy your life out there with online dating.


My First Online Dating Experience

I would like to share my experience on online dating. It was not more than a month that I had joined the online dating site. I met Roger, on the second day of joining the online dating site. After chatting with him for some days, he called me to ask if I would like to go for a long drive with him the next evening. All these days I had enjoyed his company and it was altogether a new experience for me. So, I readily agreed.

Initially, I was nervous and I could feel the butterfly in my stomach, but after some time he turned out to be a good and caring friend. It was a great evening. He drove the car on the highway and I enjoyed my first dating with such a nice man. We talked a lot about almost everything- family, education and occupation. I just held my breath when he told me that he was in the process of getting a divorce. He stopped the car in the middle of the road and told that his married life has been shattered and now that he is on his way to splits ville, he wants a real friend in his life. I felt that he should have told me about this earlier, while chatting online. He had told me that he was already divorced. I was no more interested to talk to this man.

After coming back from the long drive I locked myself in the room and tried to find someone else through online dating. Since the day, I had been dating with so many boys I met on online dating sites. There had been numerous experiences- good and bad. But I couldn’t forget Roger, the man I had a date with for the first time. We would meet online and had exchanged few calls, but I had never thought of meeting him after that. I knew the online dating sites are all about fun and I shouldn’t think seriously about him.

Days went on and I forgot everything about Roger as I was busy with my own life, I kept on meeting people through online dating though. The other day, I was just back from my office and got a call from Roger. He told me that he had been to skiing and ended up breaking his leg in the process. First, I tried to ignore his call as my heart didn’t allow me to trust the man. But, on a second thought, I decided to meet him in the hospital. I felt terrible for him as I found him lying in the hospital bed in a miserable condition. A feeling of remorse and self-pity was clearly visible on his face.

Again and again, he tried to convince me that he was sorry and he is divorced now. This time I trusted him and we exchanged a couple of kisses to say that we are friends again. Well, I can say that online dating experiences are really enjoyable. It’s all about fun and I love enjoying them again and gain.