Friday, May 29, 2009

I Found My Partner Through Online Dating When I needed Her

Today, online dating is a familiar concept and anyone irrespective of their age is joining online dating to add spices to their life. For many people, online dating is one of the ways of meeting their prospective partners. Many people have succeeded in their attempts and meet their life partner on the sites that provide services for online dating. Years back, when I was young, the online dating concept was never there. Dating was full of responsibility and you have to be careful before approaching a girl. Using the Internet for searching your soul mate was beyond the imagination. Even when the concept of online dating was introduced, every time you talk about it you would get a raised eyebrow. But today, everything has changed and anyone can join online dating sites.

I’m 65-year-old man, leading a lonely life in this small town. After the death of my wife, life was so monotonous and I was seeking someone who can share my loneliness. But I found no one around. My grandson, Levin, had told me about online dating and he had been chatting with girls using dating sites. But, I had never thought of using it. Last year Levin got a job and moved to the other city. This was the time I was looking for someone who can spend time with me and share my feelings. Life without a partner is less than interesting and you don’t feel like living any more when you are all alone. Alternatively, you have to look for other sources of getting pleasure.

After Levin shifted to another city, I used his computer to join the arena of online dating. I was no computer savvy, but I quickly picked up the art of using it and joining the dating services. For the first few days I searched across the web to gather information about the concept, the perfect way of using it and the steps that should be followed for pleasant online dating experiences. Only few days of research and I had many online friends. Chatting with them get me forget all worries and life became wonderful again.

Most of my online friends are from the same country and like minded people. We share many personal and universal problems. But I feel more attracted towards a lady Laily. She turned 60 last week and I’m quite comfortable chatting with her. In fact while chatting with her I feel this is what online dating is. We have met a couple of times and I feel she has really added charm to my life. I feel more thankful to the online dating sites because they enabled me to meet Laily when I was in dire need of a friend. Perhaps, I would have left with a worse life if the online dating was not there.

Every human being needs someone in their life. But finding the right person is not that easy. And, when you can find someone when you are alone, the person becomes more important for you. There are many people, like me, who are living neglected and lonely life. Probably, they hesitate to enter into the world of online dating. But my advice is it is your life and you must live it as you want. Join online dating today and get the right one for you.

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Free Dating Sites Helped Me Build My Confidence

The World Wide Web has widened the scope of dating for everyone. Surfing the web, you can find plethora of free dating sites that cater to the needs of the millions of online daters. In fact, the sites have totally changed people’s approach towards dating. The concept of online dating has allowed people to meet thousands of people across the world and make friendship with them. These days, people prefer the free dating sites to be the most convenient way of finding their prospective partner. These sites give plenty of opportunities to meet with single across the world. You can choose your partner by comparing numerous options.


Free dating sites have helped me a lot in finding my love. When I was in college, I was in love with a pretty girl, Minel. She was extremely beautiful. To be honest, she was the kind of girl that every boy would like to date with. I had my obsession to make her my girlfriend and take her for date. But every time I wished to propose her, my lack of confidence dragged me back and I leave the place before saying anything. The truth is I’m bad at breaking the ice with girls and I don’t think it is easy for anyone, who shares the same problem, to start a new relation. Unless you express your feelings how would someone know them? Even Minel could never understand what I wanted to say her.


Anyways, it was my fault and I couldn’t get Minel just because of my inability to express myself. But, unfortunately, even after so many years of leaving the college and joining a reputed company I didn’t have a girl friend. It is not more than a year when one of my co-workers drew my attention to free dating sites. He said that I must join the free dating sites as they are great aid to anyone who can’t dare to start conversation with a girl. It is a space where everyone is free to express their feelings to anyone they like. Even if you are turned down by someone, no one is watching you. These lines impelled me to create my accounts on different free dating sites.


My initial experiences in free dating sites were not good. They say I’m laconic …yes I am, but I too have feelings and I can also love, why no one understands? But then I thought, you have to change yourself if you want to get noticed. Gradually, I started chatting with girls on free dating sites. Few girls stopped communicating further after a couple of conversation. But it was ok… perhaps they were not meant for me.


Today I have a long list of girls I regularly chat with. I bet my communication skill has developed a lot and now I can chat with a girl, talk to her over phone or if required flirt any of those hot girls out there on free dating sites. I’ve even planned a date with one of those girls. I must thank free dating sites for this.

Online Dating – My favorite Hang-Out

The society has taken a new turn and these days, online dating is no more a thing that would face raised eyebrows. Gone are the days when middle-man used to be the most important means of finding prospective life partners. These days, online dating sites are the best way of meeting new people and starting search for the Mr and Miss Right. These sites have reduced the need of middle men. In fact, the pubs and discos, the traditional place for meeting people, have been replaced by the chat rooms. Whether, you find your prospective partner through the online dating or not, it is of sure that you will enjoy being there on those dating sites.


It was a mixture of curiosity and boredom that dragged me to the online dating sites. After joining my new job in this city I was literally all alone. I had little time to socialize, and as I knew no one in this city, my weekends were also boring. Once the office was over, I would return to my home with no one to talk to. Even the bars and the discos were not enjoyable. Before two months, while shopping from a roadside stall, an advertisement drew my attention. It was about an online dating site. How foolish I had been all these days by not thinking of the most convenient way of meeting people. Right there I decided to take an internet connection and start online dating.


I had been using the services of online dating sites before I came to this city. So it was not difficult for me to get back to the cyber dating arena. As I was getting tired of the monotonous life and longing to find someone, the online dating came as a blessing. Life became live worthy after I met many interesting people across the web. Communicating with them through the online dating sites was like sitting together face-to-face. After a couple of week I met Willis. He is a nice person and his profile was equally impressive. The first email he sent was short but pleasing to read.


Most of my online dating incidents had been ‘dismal stories’. They never last for more than a couple of weeks. Hence, I was sure that my chances of finding my soul mate are low. But, when I met Willis something in me said that he is the right person for me. I still remember the first chatting that lasted for 3 hours, the first telephone conversation, and the first date. I had no idea that I can meet my love and life partner with online dating. I fell in love with Willis the first time I met him face-to-face. He was handsome and mature and can drag attentions towards himself with his style. He is painter as well.


After two weeks we are going to tie our nuptial bond. As of now we are still online dating as this is something I enjoy most. Anyways, online dating has significantly changed my life. I would suggest anyone to join online dating for the fun that the dating sites offer to their members.

Thursday, May 21, 2009

Live a Life Full of Fun on Free Dating Sites

If you are going to get your feet wet with online dating on the free dating sites, you must know that success and failure are part and parcel of it. So you must accept whatever it comes on your way. So are you ready to face the challenges of free dating sites. Yes, I must call it challenges because winning a heart and getting true love with your true self is really difficult. Not all the free dating sites are created equal and you can’t expect the same kind of services from them hence you have to get along with the websites before you look for friends.

Whether you achieve the success or not is a different thing, important is how you conduct yourself on the free dating sites. It is your etiquettes that impel others to start relationship with you. Hence, it is really essential that you should present yourself more effectively to become visible among the other member of the free dating sites.

Make Your Profile Serve Your Purpose
On the free dating sites, profile is the only way how people will know you. There is nothing impressive like a well-written and appealing profile. Hence, make your profile reflect your best self. Be honest while writing your profile, it is really important. If you don’t want to reveal your personal details, you need not mention them. But exaggerating yourself can cause troubles in future. You can find these advices and tips in many articles. But many people try to avoid it provide misleading information of their identity. In many cases people have ended up facing troubles when they are exposed. If you are seriously looking for a relationship, you must have to be honest.

Take Time to Read The Profiles Before Befriending Them
When you are on free dating sites, you are there to make friends. So it is acceptable that you should send and receive messages for friendship. However, it is crucial that you should make friends only after going through the profiles of the other members. This effort can save you from the future hassles. Most people like to communicate with the kind of people who share same interests with them.

Apart from reading the profiles, you can make a Google search about the person so that you can get more information about them. If you have befriended someone on the free dating sites and want to meet him personally, the Google search becomes an important matter.

Don’t Get Excited and Don’t Lose Heart
If someone accepts your requests and communicates with you don’t get excited to reveal all your past secrets to them. You should take every step carefully while you are on free dating sites. Again, if someone turns down your request there is no reason why you should lose your heart. There are many people out there on the free dating sites who match your criteria. You can search for them and contact them.

Free dating sites are for fun. Enjoy your life there.

Online Dating Can Change Your Life If Done Whole-Heartedly

The last time I visited online dating site was a year ago. At that time life was worth living for me. I was literally enjoying being there in the cyberspace and meeting with girl. Everyday, after coming back from the office, I would jump into the bed with my laptop and start browsing across the online dating sites. I had many friends…good and bad. Whatever they were, I was enjoying chatting with them. But my aim as to chat with hot girls and meet them personally after online dating for sometime. I had met several girls; most of them were nice. They also enjoy chatting with me for I was good at flirting and could mould the thinking of any girl.

A good job, lots of girls around- what else would you want from your life? Online dating had reshaped my life. It had spiced up my lonely life enabling me making numerous friends and meeting the kind of people I like. Sherin was one of those nice and beautiful girls I had met on the online dating sites. I had been chatting with hr for a long time on a online dating site. After conversing on the phone for a couple of weeks we felt that we had soft corners in our heart for each other and we should meet face-to-face.

The day when we decided our first date was really exciting… Although I had dated with many girls earlier, my intuitions told me that something special is waiting for me. I reached the place earlier and waited for her anxiously. When Sherin came and said ‘Hi’, it was the most pleasurable moment of my life. We talked to each other and I enjoyed the dating more than I enjoyed online dating with her. She was beautiful, innocent and intelligent. Truly speaking, I was in love with her on our very first date. We enjoyed that evening being with each other.

On our way back to home, I dropped her at her place and she asked me to continue our online dating before she left for her home. I could clearly understand that she was also equally in love with me. We continued our online dating and occasionally met in the parks and cafes. After meeting Sherin I didn’t feel like meeting any other girl. She was second to none in her beauty. I was grateful to online dating that had helped me find a beautiful life partner. Last year, I tied the nuptial bond with Sherin. I couldn’t have got a better wife than her if online dating was not there.

After three days, Sherin and I are going to celebrate our first marriage anniversary. Family responsibilities and job don’t allow me to visit those online dating sites. But I still remember those days when life was beautiful with online dating. Actually, online dating has catered to the needs of many individuals and literally helped many of them to find their soul mates. Online dating is really great.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

The Mistakes You Must not Do in Free Dating Sites

Are you among those internet daters who love free dating sites? Well, I’m one among them and I feel free dating sites are perfect for me. I truly believe that online dating is fun and you can enjoy life there if you feel yourself 18-at-heart forever. It is a space for everyone. It is not age-specific or gender-specific. Free dating sites offer services to anyone who has a passion to meet people and guts to jump into the thrilling world of excitement. I never care whether I face success or failure; I just enjoy being a part of those free dating sites. I’m one among the millions of people on the free dating sites who feel that you must look for every source of pleasure.

With thousands of people joining free dating sites everyday, it can be said that free dating sites are most sought-after hang outs for the genY. Once you are on those websites life becomes totally different. You are able to contact many people across the world and literally make friendship with them. The services on the free dating sites are growing popular for they offer a cost effective service of starting relationships, finding your soul mates, if you want. In many articles on the web you can find success stories of people who have found their life partner through online dating. Sometimes, I’m surprised how people across the world have come closer with these free dating sites.

Loads of fun being the prime goal of online dating, free dating sites are the perfect choice for everyone. But the trick of enjoying these sites lies in selecting them and keeping yourself in the safer site. I have selected some of the reliable dating sites, which is very important for everyone, especially for the beginners. You can’t find same kind of services on every free dating site. Some of the websites restrict their services and charge some hidden fees to access that. I prefer 100% free dating sites that assure security and privacy. That is the reason you should go through the instructions and methods of the services before signing up on any of the free dating sites.

Second most important aspect to consider is the security. While creating your profile and also while sending messages it is very important that you should be careful about disclosing your personal info. Most people get into trouble being careless about this matter. In fact, I have faced trouble a couple of times by revealing to the person on the other side about some of my secrets. You should remember that not all the people on the free dating sites are good enough to start relationship. As the sites offer free services, anyone can be a member and enjoy the fun of meeting lots of people. Hence, some people are there to do mischievous things as well.

Free dating sites are full of fun. There are also evidences of people finding their life partner through online dating sites. You just need to learn the right etiquettes so that you can enjoy the world of online dating.

Waiting for My Love on Online Dating

The world of online dating is perplexing. Sometimes high expectations, achievements and sometimes failure and frustration. After all, it is a part of our life and you can’t expect only pleasure just because it is online dating. Long back, when my grand parents were dating (as they say), it was something different. Most of the time their dating would start with a blind date and it was the common way of meeting a prospective spouse. With the change of time and technology affecting every part of life, dating has also taken a new turn. We, the techno-savvy generation can’t think anything beyond our PCs or laptops. To add to this process, the online dating services are mushrooming to expand the periphery of dating on cyberspace.

I have been using online dating services since last six years. I was 19 when I signed up to one of the online dating sites. As a teenager I had a lot of expectations from the virtual dates. My idea was that online dating is a world of fun and you can enjoy in whichever way you want. Actually, my mission was to find lots of girls through online dating. All my friends had girl friends since the time they were in high school, and I was being turned down by every girl I proposed. Perhaps the problem was with my conversation skill which I really lack. Hence, I thought joining the online dating sites might bring me the pleasure of life that I had been looking for.

But the truth is, no one can guarantee you real love. The advertisement in the newspaper lauded online dating and some of the websites with pictures of couples showing all of their teeth to convey that they are happy. I was so impressed that I became determined to get my share of happiness on the online dating sites. After signing up to some of the reputed websites, I started searching for people who can match my criteria. The first girl who responded to my email was Celia. She was extremely beautiful and friendly as well. We get along with each other quickly. Perhaps, those days were the happiest days of my life.

Celia and I would chat for hours. We had developed a romantic relationship through online dating sites. She was so nice and caring… she would ask me if I was ill whenever I was late for the chat. The love and caring nature was something I was looking for and I had poured my heart to her. She was also equally in love with me and that is the reason I asked her to meet me face-to-face. She agreed; we decided the place and time. On that day I was so excited to meet her. After all, this is not online dating, but love that any emotional person like me would expect. I reached there at the pre-decided time, and waited. But I kept on waiting and she didn’t come….

I sent several emails, tried to contact her, but to end up with no result. She never came online again. This is the story of my online dating….

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Free Dating Sites are the Doorways to Relationships

My friends say free dating sites are better than any paid dating site because finally you are on online dating. I feel there are many teenagers on the free dating sites for they can get the services free of cost and save their pocket money. But I’m on free dating sites because I have been an active member of the sites since last six years. I’m satisfied with the service I get from them without paying a single penny.

Earlier, when I was less informed about the websites for free dating, I would join any website and contact anyone without properly reading their profiles. Although I had never faced trouble in those days, I can feel that it would have been dangerous. But things are different today. These days, the online dating sites are more careful about the privacy and security of the members. So basically, you can achieve your online dating goals with free dating sites if done properly and carefully.

The other day, when I was looking for someone special to start a new relationship, I came across a profile that was really interesting. Missel- the name of the girl itself was so appealing. She shared the same interests with me and we had many things in common. I wanted to start a conversation with her and my first step was to send an email. After waiting for a few days, I felt that she might not be interested in communicating with me. It was really unfortunate for me that I couldn’t meet the person I wanted to. But then online dating is like that; other people will reply to you only if they are interested. This is not the first time I faced rejection.

I started looking for profiles that are interesting and people who would like to meet someone like me. I sent emails to many hot girls out there and received many messages. Sometimes, I receive so many messages that I hardly get time to read and reply to them. But, yesterday, it was different. Guess what? I received an email from Missel. I held my breath, is it true? And yes……. It was the same Missel I had sent an email. She had written that she was thinking over the matter and taking time to reply. Oh my gosh…I really don’t understand why girls take so much time to think?? I’m not a bad guy!!

Anyways, it is not the time to think about the whys, what and when.. . I should rather think about taking the relationship to the next level. She is not the kind of girl who will readily agree to what I say. So I have to be careful before sending the next email. But one thing is sure that I have become more serious about handling relationships. Thanks to the free dating sites that have made me think and handle relationships in my real life. I think it is a great achievement in itself.

Anyways, I’m looking forward to start a long-term relationship with Missel and I hope free dating sites will definitely help me do that.

In Search of Soul-Mate through Online Dating

Many people join online dating to get Mr or Miss Right for them. I am one among the people who think that you should try every method to achieve your goals. After getting a good job and three break-ups with my ex-girl friends, it was time I should decide on getting married to someone who can truly be my soul mate, my life partner. Local searches and blind dates couldn’t help me much; I had a good time meeting some of the girls though. So I decided to join online dating in search of my life partner.

Joining online dating was not new for me. I was active on many online dating sites when I was in college. I had dates with several girls. A decade ago online dating was a new concept and many of my friends were scared of joining those sites as they were unaware of the facts and proper techniques of using the online dating services. Although I had joined online dating I had kept it a secret to my friends. I would chat with girls secretly and date with them in places where most of my friends frequent. They would feel jealous of me for I was dating new girls every time. They would ask me about the secret of dating with so many girls and even offer bribes to find out the truth. Life was wonderful!

Gradually, online dating became the talk of the town and every one joined it to meet people and find someone who can be their love or soul mate. There were some people who joined online dating for it was the trend of the day. But, these days, joining online dating has become a compulsion. People hardly get time to meet each other, let alone making friendship. The hectic schedules are making everyone neglect their existing relationships. In such a scenario it is really difficult to develop new relationships. This social change has increased the popularity of online dating among people who are looking forward to find someone special but are not able to cope with their lifestyle.

These days, I’m back to the scene of online dating. I had been out of the scene for so many years and I can feel that the online dating websites have increased a lot and there has been a radical change in the services of online dating. People joining the services have also changed and they are open to accepting the change in the social systems. The other day, when I logged in to one of the Internet dating sites, I received a message from one of the girls who is smart and beautiful as well. I was excited to get the message and her profile mentions that she can be a perfect life partner for me.

But hold on, I have to think over it and then decide. Tonight, I’m going to meet that girl; it is our first date. Online dating is really great… even though I don’t find her suitable life partner, at least I can have a chance of meeting the gorgeous lady.

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

How Can Fake Information Harm You on Free Dating Sites

Four years ago, when I first joined free dating sites, I was not sure about their security policies and hence, I was scared of providing details of my personal info on my profile. But the time has changed a lot; now I can realize that your personal info and your pictures are crucial for your success on online dating.

When I was new to free dating sites, I had a misconception that online dating might be related to something porn. My aim of being on those free dating sites was just to have fun. Who knew that it would create the most memorable experience of my life!

It was the time when I used to flirt with a girl on those online dating sites. One of the girls I was not familiar with was Kelley; actually, I was not much impressed with her picture on her profile. Probably, I thought she was not attractive enough. Kelly would email me regularly, whereas I would occasionally reply to her emails. I was in search of hot girls and whoever I wanted to communicate with hardly showed any interest in responding to my messages. After not getting success from my efforts I was so frustrated that one day I started chatting with Kelley. Basically, I had formed the idea that she was not the kind of girl I was looking for on the free dating sites.

Our first conversation on the free dating site was very formal, but I must admit that I was really impressed with the way she communicated with me. She was interesting… and had a positive bent of mind. The conversation didn’t last for long but that had shattered my prejudice towards Kelley. Our second conversation was a really interesting one, we talked about a lot of matters and before leaving the chat, she advised me to complete my profile and add pictures to it. Yes, it is very essential that you should add some photographs on your profile to enhance your credibility.

At that time I did a mistake by adding fake info on my profile. Although I knew that it was wrong, I was happy that I was getting lots of responses after that. Kelley was so impressed that she had sent an e-card that mentioned about how she appreciated my profession and my lifestyle. Never had I known that I would fall in love with Kelly. Although she was not so attractive, she was a wonderful human being.

Unfortunately, one day Kelly discovered all about me through a Google search and didn’t want to continue this relationship. My love story ended before I could even enjoy it. The incident taught me a lot about free dating sites and the people out there on those sites.

These days, free dating sites have become concerned about privacy and security of their members. There is no reason why you should provide fake information in your profile. Of course it is necessary that you shouldn’t provide details of your personal information to the person on the other side. Free dating sites can bring you desired result if you use them properly.

How I Overcame the Prejudice About Online Dating

Life is uncertain and you never know when the things that you consider useless will work wonders for you. For instance, online dating. When I heard about online dating it was really a stupid concept for me. I thought, how one can fall in love with someone who is far away from you and who you have never met. But, today I can feel that I was wrong and online dating is really a wonderful invention.

When I joined online dating I had a lot of prejudice about the concept. I would think that strangers will misuse the personal information provided by other members. But when I read the privacy and security policies of the online dating websites, the misconception was reduced to a certain extent, I was not convinced though. But I used online dating because I had heard that one can meet and date with lots of girls across the cyberspace.

The first girl I met for online dating was Rose. She was as beautiful as her name. We would chat for hours and enjoy those moments. I had never thought that online dating can be so interesting. Gradually, I met a lot of girls and I enjoyed chatting with them. As I am good at flirting, I was confident that these girls would really be interested in me. I don’t remember when I got addicted to online dating…. But I was eager to meet those beautiful girls. I wanted to meet them personally, but I was scared of asking them. More than being scared I was skeptical about being turned down.

If you are not taking your relationship to the next level, what’s the use of joining online dating? Hence, I asked Rose to join me for skiing that evening and to my surprise she agreed to it. The first date outside online dating was wonderful. Rose is really a wonderful girl, hot and intelligent. She is good at skiing too. We had a great time talking to each other and having dinner together. Before I dropped her at her home we walked together on the beach in the moon light.

The experience was enough to build my confidence and I had several dates with many girls out there on online dating. But, dating with Rose was really the best one. After that I started frequent online dating with Rose. Actually after our date we had become closer to each other. Day-by-day our relationship grew stronger and we felt that we should meet again, again and again.

It is not difficult to understand that now we are in love with each other and we are looking forward to tie our nuptial bond very soon. Today, I don’t want to remember that there was a time when I was against love through online dating sites. The online dating arena is for everyone. Now, I think everyone should join online dating sites, at least to experience the joys that the sites offer to their members. Wish you a wonderful online dating!

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Tips to Write the First Email of Online Dating

So, you are on online dating and looking for tips to begin conversation with a girl on those online dating sites, right? Well, I must say it is not too difficult to start a conversation and create a striking first impression. Only you need to learn the skill of doing it. It is not sending a message, but getting response that is important.

Don’t be Bashful
If you find a profile interesting enough to send a message, don’t hesitate and think about what the other person will think. Jut send a polite message.. After all they are on the online dating sites to hear from you and other members. But be careful that your message should be well-written to attract the attention of the other person. You have joined the online dating sites to contact people and know them. If you won’t send messages to them, it will be impossible for you to know them.

Initiate Contacts with Emails
Emails are the most common form of contacting people for online dating. This is the best and the decent way of starting a conversation with someone you like or your prospective date. The purpose of the first email is to find out whether the person on the other side is interested in you. It is a kind of breaking the ice with the person. If the person you sent the message responds to your email, you can take your next step accordingly. Instant messages should be started after you have exchanged some emails so that you will be familiar with each other.

How to Write First Email for Online Dating
Meeting someone online and starting conversation is really exciting. But it is important that you should know the tricks of writing the emails so that you can get responses from your prospective dates.

• Don’t start your email by pouring out your soul. Personal matters should be discussed once you are familiar with the person. Start your conversation with any of the general topic.
• Honesty matters everywhere, even in online dating. Be yourself, you can’t succeed in the long-run by telling silly lies. You may end up in losing your potential relationship once the facts are disclosed.
• Before sending your first email for online dating, take some time to read the profile of the other person and send compliments in your email on whatever you find interesting about them.
• Try to make your first email interesting enough so that people will be interested in communicating with you. If there is a positive response to your email, find ways to continue this communication. You can mention about things that are common between both of you.
• Try to let your personality shine in your first email. First impression lasts long and as long as you are able to maintain the impression, you are on your way for successful online dating.
• As far as possible, try to remember some of the important points that the other person has mentioned. You can keep a record of messages sent and received.

The above tips will definitely help you get success in online dating.

Patience Brings Success on Free Dating Sites

The burgeoning popularity of the free dating sites has influenced many people to join the arena of online dating. I have felt that free dating sites are more like social networking site. You can join them, make new friends, share your thoughts, and contact people …and there are many other activities you can enjoy out there. However, many people also join these free dating sites to find their soul mates.

I have been in the online dating landscape since four years and witnessed the development in the services and structures of free dating sites. Earlier, free dating sites were being considered as substandard service providers and online daters were scared of joining these sites. But the scenario has changed these days and people have started recognizing the free dating sites as another way of finding their love and soul mates.

Now that I have collected many good and bad experiences through free dating sites, I can consider myself an expert in online dating and give lots of tips on making successful online dating experiences. But as there are lots of articles available across the web providing tips and advices on using free dating sites, I am describing one of my experiences that virtually changed my life.

After joining free dating sites for more than one year, decided to find someone who is really interested in me and want to start a long-term relationship. Till that day, I was only making friendship and meeting with people just for the sake of knowing others. My adventure started with sending a message to Kelly, a hot, stylish lady with a well-written profile. Actually, I liked her picture…..she was gorgeous. After sending the message, I waited long to get a reply from her, but she didn’t. I kept on sending messages for 5 days without any answer from that lady. At last I gave up…

After a few days, it was my birthday and I was excited to see the messages that had come from my friends. Hence, on that day after I got up in the morning, I rushed to the computer to check my emails. And can u guess, it was Kelly who had wished me on my birthday and had sent a beautiful e-card. Wow! My happiness knew no bound; I couldn’t have wished for more on that day. I was literally dancing with joy.

That night I had a chat with Kelly. When asked about the reason for her late reply, she informed me that she had been busy for her exams. That was the longest conversation I have ever had with anyone on the free dating sites. I had earlier read in an article that if someone is not answering your messages, either they are too busy to answer or they are not interested in communicating with you. That’s the reason I had presumed that Kelly might lack interest in me.

Fortunately, everything is alright and we still continue to chat on free dating sites. In fact, we are in love with each other and I thank free dating sites for giving me the joy of my life.

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Tale of two Hearts on Online Dating

My experience on online dating is that it is the most convenient way of meeting your prospective partner in the cyberspace. Many online daters have achieved success through online dating because the online dating sites allow the users to surf other users who match their requirements. It is the best way to find your Mr or Mrs Right as you get numerous options in front of you on those online dating sites.

Whether you are in online dating or in the real world, you will find many people meeting your criteria but still differing in their compatibility with you. But in real life it is not possible for you to meet them frequently to know about them in detail just because you are looking for a partner. On the other hand, online dating creates opportunities for you to meet many people who share the same interests as you and have the desire to meet someone like you.

When I started searching for a life partner, my first preference was to search for someone in the city itself. I asked my friends and relatives to help me in my search; and I dated many girls. Some of them were wonderful, some were simply awful. But nothing worked. It was time to take expert advice and I turned to my brother who enjoys life with online dating. Often, he had been asking me to join online dating sites and I had been turning him down saying online dating is mere fun and you can’t build long-term relationship with people who you hardly know.

My brother introduced me to online dating and taught me a few techniques of meeting women and starting conversation with them. I didn’t take much time in learning the techniques and as I was desperate about find someone as my soul mate it was essential for me as well. Since that day, there was no looking back. I started sending message to many girls whose profiles were interesting and who are beautiful as well.

After sending messages, I found replies from some girls and they showed interest in my profile. I started communicating with them by sending messages and emails…. It was the beginning of my online dating experience. I start chatting with them regularly so that we can be familiar with each other. Man alive, life is worth living on online dating sites. I would spend hours together talking to them and asking about their interests and their expectation from their prospecting soul mates.

I selected a few girls who were really what I want from my life partner and expressed my desire about meeting them personally. The meetings with those girls were equally exciting as meeting them through online dating. Alice was the girl I liked most among them.

Today, Alice is my fiancĂ©e and we are going to tie the nuptial bond next month. Till now, I’m active on those online dating sites and chatting with those girls who I had met those days. Online dating is making me feel that there are many options; you need to find them and select the best one among them.

Getting Ready For Another Relationship With Online Dating

My journey to the online dating landscape began after my break-up with my ex-husband. I was so frustrated with my broken marriage that I couldn’t see anything beyond my own world of sorrows and depression. I would even neglect my 3-year-old daughter and succumb to alcohol most of the time. After a few months, when I realized the truth of my life, the first person I consulted was my cousin; she is a psychiatrist and my friend as well. After treating my condition, she advised me to join a job and an online dating site. Although I readily agreed to search for a job as I have the responsibility of my daughter, I was skeptical about joining online dating. It was difficult for me to believe that one can really meet her soul mate through online dating.

The day I first joined online dating was a memorable one. I turned to my friend for her expert advice on online dating and get started by inviting few selected people for friendship. Initially, I was not comfortable talking about my broken marriage, but gradually, I got used to it and I could feel that there are many nice people out there with whom I can share my experiences. Steve, the man I met through the online dating websites, became my best friend and we would enjoy our time chatting with each other. He told me that his marital life was on rocks and he is on his was to splits Ville.

Gradually, Steve and I developed a romantic relationship which grew stronger with each meeting. We had several dates and we could feel that we are compatible with each other. Our online dating turned out to be a relationship for a lifetime when we decided to marry each other. But I wanted that my daughter should know Steve and accept him before we are married. Steve agreed to this …

Yesterday, Steve had planned everything for our meeting and it was wonderful. Actually, I had no idea about the other aspect of Steve’s personality. He is a caring and affectionate person. My daughter was comfortable with him as he held her and took her for a ride on the roller coaster. He was trying his best to give my daughter everything she wanted. The evening made me feel that online dating is wonderful… it helped me meet Steve, who can be a reliable life partner and a caring father.

When it comes to relationship I’m really devoted, but I don’t have an answer to “Why your marriage didn’t last?” But after joining online dating and meeting with Steve I can feel that there is another aspect of living life. Maintaining relationship needs understanding each other. After joining online dating I have met many people from almost all walks of life and felt that life is all about enjoying and living happily.

Online dating has created many new opportunities for the people out there in the cyberspace. So, I wish luck for everyone who are looking for their soul mates or love through online dating.

Friday, May 1, 2009

Find Your Love in the Cyberspace Through Online Dating

Do you know why more and more people are interested in online dating these days? The reason for this is that it is comparatively a hassle-free way of dating. Contrary to the conventional dating style where people were limiting their search to their town or city to get someone who they can really love, you can now search across the world wide web and choose the one from millions of options. Moreover, you don’t need to waste your time by dating with people in the town who don’t match your criteria. Rather, you can search for many people in the cyberspace who share the same interest with you. Online dating allows you to talk to people and know more about them before you actually meet them and start a relationship. This is a great concept and now almost everyone in the western world is accepting online dating as an ultimate way of meeting their soul mates or finding love.

There are hundreds of online dating websites across the web and you will find varieties of members in each of them. Some of them are looking for serious relationships and some are not-so-serious about it, but want fun out of them. Whatever may be the goal, you can find someone for online dating on these websites. You can send messages and emails and chat with people you like to develop strong relationships with them. The most attractive thing about online dating is you can promote yourself even when you are not available online. Your profiles are a great way to give information about you to other members of the sites. Actually, in case of online dating, it is the profile that matters as you are not able to see the person. The person on the other side might be living miles away from you, but you can meet them, know about them and share thoughts with them through written and verbal communication. It’s possible all because of online dating.

Personally, I feel that you are exposed to numerous options for finding your love when you are on online dating sites. When I was searching for my love within the range of my college friends, I had to wait for days to get a reply. Sometimes, I would wait for weeks but ultimately end up with no answer at all. I don’t understand what makes the girls take so long to answer. Till they reply- whether yes or no- you might have missed numerous opportunities to find someone better than her. But with online dating you are open to send messages to multiple recipients. Isn’t that interesting?

Online dating is not much expensive; even the free dating sites are offering their services free of cost. So basically, you don’t have to do much to get involved with someone across the cyberspace. The only thing you have to do is to brush up your conversation skill. The ability to interact with others can take you places with online dating. So, give online dating a shot and enjoy love among the world wide web.

Can You Make Long-Term Relationships on Free Dating Sites

Most of the online daters prefer to meet other people through free dating sites. These days the free dating sites have come up with value added services for the members. Hence, they are most popular among the teenagers who are new to the world of online dating and are learning the art of dating through free dating sites. Even the adults are using these services for they are free of cost and provide nearly equal facilities as the paid services. But the matter of consideration is whether the free dating sites are able to find a person who can develop long-term relation with you.

For the mature as well as teenage users of free dating sites, it is easy to start relationship with someone that they meet on the websites. But it is difficult for most of them to retain the relationship. Often, the teenagers are prone to build and break relationship faster in contrast to people who are mature enough to understand about relationship and who know how to nurture them. however, there are few tricks with which you can build relationships on free dating sites that will last long.

Speak the Truth
In whichever article regarding dating tips and dating advice you read, they will advice you to provide factual information about you; it enhances your credibility in the cyberspace. Many people using free dating sites fake their identity and try to fool others. You should remember that these days, every one is making a Google search to know about other people. If you are pretending to be someone else, it may not take much time to find out the truth about you. Moreover, if you are seriously interested for a long term relationship, it is important that other should love you for what they are. There is no harm in being honest. But care should be taken not to reveal about all of you unless you have interacted with the person for a long time and you have faith on them.

Great Communication Skill
If you want response for your messages and emails, learn the art of breaking the ice on free dating sites. Many people lacking this are fail to get someone perfect for them even if they have other great qualities. Even after starting conversation, there are few techniques of communicating with people. Prior to sending message, try to spend some time on reading the profiles and in your message, mentions about what they like. It will definitely create positive impression. While chatting online, don’t talk too much about yourself, others may not be interested in it. Choose a topic both of you are interested in so that it can last for long. These conversations and messages are foundation of long term relationships on free dating sites.

Candid Discussion about Expectations
For a relation to last long, it is important that you should choose people who really meet your criteria. If you are serious about a long term relationship and looking for someone who shares the same interest on the free dating sites, you have to start a discussion about what you want in your souls mate and what the other person’s expectations are.

These tips will definitely help you get your love and soul mate for a long term relationship. So get the free dating sites a go, and start your online dating adventure today.