Friday, June 12, 2009

How to Impress Someone You Meet at Online Dating Sites

The idea of first blind date with a person you met on the online dating sites can be exciting. But, prior to that you should know the behavior pointers, safety tips and other etiquettes that will make your first date successful. Follow the tips and find out the best way to a successful dating with a person you met on online dating sites.

• Before you leave for met that Mr or Miss Right you met on online dating sites, the best precaution you can take is to inform your family members or any friend about the date, who and where you are meeting, when should they expect you at home. It will avoid many risks and let you have fun and enjoy your date.

• It is better to choose a public place for meeting. This warning is especially for the women daters of the online dating sites who are going to meet unknown individuals for the first time. Even if you are choosing an intimate place for your meeting, make sure that you can reach out to someone if needed.

• Try to make out the intension of the other person and find out if two of you can hook up for longer. If you find no chemistry, there is no reason why you should wait for longer. Plan to shorten your meeting and make some excuses to bail quickly. Although it is not as easy as you can do that on the online dating sites, you have to make your way out. And if you find your date clicking, you can extend it to a longer period of time. But make sure that the other person is feeling the same for you.

• It is not necessary that the person you have met on the online dating sites is the date of your dreams, but when you are meeting them physically you need to meet with respect. Your gestures like smiling, having patience and thanking for the time he/she has spent with you will definitely make them feel special.

• Try to create a lighter environment with your conversation. It will make both of you feel better with each other. Discuss the topics that interest both of you. As you have already chatted with him/her on online dating sites, you must have some idea about what he/she likes and what not. Talking about weather is the best way to break the ice. Online dating experts have suggested avoiding topics like sex, politics and religion on your first date.

• If you find your date to be interesting and if you are thinking of spending more time with him/her, you need to keep control on your gestures and body language. While chatting through online dating sites, there is no one to watch what you are doing or wearing. But on your first date you are going to create first visual impression. Hence, try to look your best on that day. And who knows, he/she may be person you have been looking for.

Enjoy your dating with an open mind and you will find the real fun on it.

1 comment:

Unknown said...

Some great tips Zane, thank you for posting. Online dating services have been great for helping me to meet singles in london and I have been on several dates and although some of the guys were really nice, I have yet to find the one for me.