Friday, January 30, 2009

Online Dating Fills Life with Joy

I never knew the meaning of true love until I met my girl friend, Sarah on an online dating site. Before I met Sarah six months back, life was a complete mess for me. I was into a relationship and I really wanted it to work. But my then girlfriend had some other plans. She was into modeling and I had full support for her. However, things took a turn once she got pregnant. She didn’t want the child, and I want didn’t want to abort my baby. It was one of the happiest days in my life when my daughter was born. I had expected that after the birth of our baby, things would change for betterment. But guess I was wrong. When my daughter was only 6months old, her mother abandoned her to pursue her dream in the modeling world. I felt hurt, devastated initially but as I had a toddler to take care of, I didn’t have much time to ponder about what happened with me!

Time went by and soon Jenny (my daughter) became a six year chubby and cute girl. Life was good, for we are there for each other. Jenny doesn’t miss her mum so much coz I have always tried to be there with her whenever she needed me. About me, I was happy as Jenny was there for me. But of late, I had started feeling a bit lonely. I never got the time to be in a relationship earlier and frankly I wasn’t looking for it then with Jenny occupying most of my time. But now with Jenny grown up a bit, I was missing the companionship of someone. Then I got the idea of online dating from a friend. Initially I had no hope of bumping into my soul mate there. All I was looking for is having a casual dating experience.

I joined a leading online dating site. Starting from the first day it was a mind boggling experience for me. I joined the chat room of the online dating site and had a nice time chatting with some very interesting women there. After some days, I got a message from a profile who invited me to join her in the chat room. She was Sarah. When I met her for the first time in the chat room of the online dating site, I couldn’t feel any vibe. She seemed to be a nice, warm and friendly person. But gradually as we continued meeting day after day, I was amazed by her intellectuality. After 3months of chatting at the online dating site, we decided to meet for our first date outside the online dating site.

I was happily surprised when Sarah suggested meeting me at my home over dinner coz she wanted to meet Jenny. I was anticipating how Jenny would react, but to my surprise they got along very well even from the first time they met. Now Sarah frequents our home and treats Jenny just like her daughter. Jenny also often stays at her home at night. Though I feel a bit left out with their being close to each other, I am happy that Jenny has someone who gives her motherly love. Now we are planning to get married soon. Thanks to online dating, today life is looking afresh for me!

Datehookup Was A Great Leveler

Online dating can be a great leveler- I didn’t know this until I joined the singles forum on datehookup.com. About 5 years ago when I was in the university, I was in search of girl who I could hook up with in real. I tried several ways of finding myself a girl who could vibe with me. I went to the bars, on blind dates set up by Jack, my close buddy, and even tried my luck at a few single networks. I sure had a blast with all of them, but I was never able to find that someone who I could feel like spending the rest of my life with. I went on a ton of dates and even hooked up many single girls, it was all real fun being a part of those things. But at the end of it all, I would ask myself this question – what am I heading for?

This was when drew myself away from all those things and started thinking of trying to hook up with someone in a different way – I came with the idea of giving online dating a shot. So, I joined datehookup.com with the faintest of the idea on how to go about it. It was Jack who taught me how to set up my profile and browse along profiles of other members to see if some really appeal to you. After spending some time on it, I started sending messages to the other members and even got some from other members. But, I had little idea on what the next step should be.

One find day, I decided that I should join the singles forum on datehookup.com. I was actually trying to explore the options to bump into someone randomly and then mysteriously fall in love with her. I introduced myself to other members and then headed straight to the ‘Profile Reviews’ section where I could increase my chance of being reviewed by other members quickly. This worked out and I started getting lots of messages in my inbox the next month. It was overwhelming, so I asked Jack what I should do. He suggested that I wait and watch. Since I was focused on having a long-term relationship, I chose not to mess around with many and select only a few to see whom I could be really compatible with.

I started chatting with a few females on datehookup.com. Yana, of the several females, seemed very cordial and charming in her behavior. She had a great profile but she had no photo. We got really close and decided to meet each other offline. We both scheduled to meet at café near our university. My curious to meet her in person was at its height. I also had planned to ask her for a movie together afterwards. When I entered the café and gave her a call to confirm her arrival, she said she was already in, and told me to turn back. But, lo and behold – it was a lady of around 45. She smiled at me and I didn’t know what to do so I smiled back, but deep inside I knew it was the worst day of my life. I came straight back home after the disastrous day, taking the experience with a pinch of salt.

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Identify What Women Want To Understand Them Better

It’s tough to understand what women actually want and even tougher to do so when you are a guy. But you can say I am an exception to this general belief. Despite being a guy I understand women much better than my other friends. Maybe, my years of dating experience with some of the very interesting women or my upbringing with three elder sisters and my mum have contributed towards my understanding of women and knowing what women want.

I think women are the most intriguing creation, not to mention the most beautiful. Many of my friends often complain about their girl friends, saying that they are too complex too understand and too hard to satisfy. But I don’t agree to this- I think we guys are more at fault for we never try to know what they want in real and we expect them to adjust to every situation which is what leads to the bitterness in many relationships. Just a few days ago, when I met my friend Mark in the bar, he was looking disturbed. Upon my asking, Mark said he is pissed off with his girlfriend’s attitude. No matter how much he tries to woo her with expensive gifts, she is not letting go of her sulky mood. I asked Mark if he had ever tried to find out the reason of this. He told me they were actually planning to go on a vacation together, but they had to call it off as Mark got busy with his work.

Now I could understand the real problem between Mark and his girlfriend! While his girlfriend wanted to spend some quality time with him, Mark was not able to understand her need and trying in vain to cheer up her mood with expensive gifts. Women want their partners to understand and fulfill their desires without saying a word. I admit that if they had been a little more expressive with their needs and desires, it would have saved the misunderstandings that usually happen with each other. But maybe that’s what women want- to judge their partners. Anyways, when I explained Mark the real cause of the problem, and he realized his mistake. Now he is planning for a getaway with his girlfriend and everything seems to be normal between them.

Well, it’s tough to know what women want and moreover, all the time it’s not possible to understand what’s going on their mind. With due respect to women, I feel, at times, they need to speak their mind, desires and needs. More often than not, it is the lack of communication that creates problems in relationships. So, my appeal to all women- please, speak up for what you want. It’s definitely chivalrous to expect your partners to understand your desires, I mean that’s what women want most of the times,. However, if sometimes, your partner fails to understand what you want, it’s not that bad of just telling him, you can start with giving a hint or two about what you want. I guess all responsible guys out there will take the hints of their women seriously enough to figure out what women want actually, what say?

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

The Tale of Two Artists on Free Date Sites

You never know what life has there for you. I believe in facing life, whatever it comes. That is the reason why I try using every single thing that is known to me. Take for instance free date sites, free date sites are source of fun and pleasure. Many people are skeptical about it till date. But I used free date sites from the very first day I came to know about it. I’m a piano player and playing piano is something that I really enjoy in my life. But I could enjoy the free date sites in the same way I enjoy playing piano.

People like me are generally happy with whatever they posses. But that doesn’t mean that I never tried to get more. It is my thirst for knowledge that inspired me to give the free date sites a shot. The first time I visited free date sites I found them quite interesting. There are so many options available on free date sites that you can use and have fun. I spent my first day on free date sites by creating my profiles and going through the users’ guides on each site. I know that there are many scams found on the web related to free date sites and it is wise to follow the instructions.

Gradually, I became an expert in this field and I had many friends on the free date sites. The best thing I love to do on free date sites is chatting. I feel that knowing the art of conversation is the best way to success on free date sites. As I’m skilled in that art I have many friends from each part of the world. The girl I frequently talk to on free date sites is Catherine. When I visited her profile for the first time I was surprised to know that she is also loves piano; we share same passion, eh. Perhaps it is for this reason that I had developed a soft corner for this girl. We share many aspects of playing piano while chatting on free date sites.

Besides our frequent chat on free date sites, I and Catherine would talk a lot over phone. We had few dates out of the free date sites. But I still remember the occasion when we met on the night of piano playing competition. It was a state level competition and Catherine had participated in that. She was looking gorgeous in golden attire; I was stunned to see her. But what made me really attracted towards her is the way she played piano that night. I had no idea that she is such a skilled player. She won the competition and I felt the joy of a winner.

I expressed my love for her that night and she accepted it. Thanks to the free date sites that enabled me to know this great artist and the wonderful girl. We are going to tie the nuptial bond in the next month. It has been possible only due to free date sites.

Dating Sites are Full of Pleasant Surprises

Now-a-days many people throng to dating sites to find the perfect date for them. Dating online through dating sites is something that more and more people are looking into because it is relatively risk free. Who wants to waste time out on the town with a date that may or may not work out? Instead, now you have the option of looking for people at the dating sites and choosing to interact with them for a period of time before you decide to meet them. What’s more, there are many dating sites which are free. It means no credit card charges, no bills, no hassle; you can just enjoy online dating at these sites.

Well so far so good, but when I look at my friends, they seem to have gone crazy about these dating sites. I used to wonder, what the fuss is all about. What makes my friends so impulsive? In fact my best friend Robby is completely addicted to these dating sites. He doesn’t even look for any serious relationship or true love, but still he would hover around these dating sites whenever he gets time. Being a fitness instructor, Robby had a pretty good reputation among women at his gym. And as far as I know Robby, he wouldn’t miss any chance to have a nice time with the women who frequent to his gym. Then why the craziness for the dating sites? One day upon my asking, Robby told me there is a special charm at the dating sites which is not there in casual dating. Imagine liking someone only by interacting with her and without meeting her. Of course all the time, your choice won’t turn out to be good and you know you did a mistake ultimately when you decide to meet your date. But then it also happens in blind dates.

Don’t know why but after what Robby told me about dating sites, I felt a bit influenced. It’s been a while since I was single. So I thought of giving dating sites a shot. I chose a prominent free dating site so that even if I won’t find any date of my choice I have nothing to lose. The design, features, profiles; everything about the dating site was captivating. After registering at the dating site, I decided to start from the chat room. The dating site had a staggering number of profiles chatting then. I joined them and before I knew, I was there for four long hours! Now I understood why my friends were crazy about the dating sites.

Soon I followed the footsteps of my other friends. My days are not complete if I am not online at the dating site for some time. I met some very interesting guys there. However, of late I have a huge crush on Jack, whom I met at a chat room of the dating site some days back. I guess he also likes me a lot. Don’t know what the future holds for me, but as of now I am enjoying my dating experience at the dating site.

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Free Online Dating Service Is the Trend of the Day

Free online dating service has changed the way people live their lives. I must say that free online dating service is a wonderful means for the online daters to find each other on the web. The modern man is gearing up to make the best use of every technology and the free online dating service is another gift of the modern technology that allows its users to find their lovers, friends and soul mates conveniently.

Free online dating service has become the trend of the day and people who don’t use the service miss the finest opportunity that the Internet is providing. The world has come a long way and the increasing number of people using free online dating services has proved that online dating is definitely growing with its popularity everyday. Statistics has showed that everyday thousands of new members join one or the other free online dating service. It signifies that everyday, you get the opportunity to know thousands of people around the world.

Free online dating service has outperformed the paid online dating service as the members don’t have to pay hefty amount as membership fee. Most of the people out there on the web using one or the other free online dating services are for fun. And that’s the reason why they find free online dating service to be more feasible than a paid one. And again, if you can avail all the required facilities free of cost where is the need to pay for the same kind of services on another websites?

When I was new to the concept of online dating service, I opted for the paid one to get the best result. But I learned a lesson that not all the paid services are quality services and not all the free services are substandard ones. The huge monthly fees that I paid for 6 months were of no value as I couldn’t find someone who I can select as my partner. But the money I lost was too less for the lesson I learned from my experience. Then I switched to the free online service. There I got thousands of profiles I can select from as most of the daters prefer free online dating service than the paid ones.

Within few days of joining free online dating service I met Sherine. We exchanged our phone numbers and had a couple of dates. I’m in love with her and she has also reciprocated my feelings. I had heard of major free online dating services creating thousands of relationships on the net. This time it’s my turn, I’ve discovered my soul mate on the web and I’m really thankful to the free online dating service that I’m using.

Now, getting your soul mate or partner is just a click away with free online dating service available around you. Whether you are a single, divorcee, or married, no one can solve your purpose better than free online dating service. The only thing you need to do is to follow the safety tips and rules of the websites providing free online dating services.

Free Online Dating: Find Your Soul Mate Online

Gone are the days when people used to wait for their parents or relatives or friends to look for a life partner for them. These days, the youngsters and even the adults are using the Internet to find their prospective soul mates. Free online dating is the trend of the day. People are using free online dating sites and their services to make new friends, find their boy-friends or girl-friends and also, to meet their soul mates. With free online dating services available for everyone, I feel the world has turned into a better place to live in.

Before two years, when I heard about free online dating services for the first time, I laughed to myself. My conventional way of thinking was dominating my behavior at that time. I was looking for a suitable girl to marry and was unable to find one. When my younger brother told me about free online dating and suggested me to join a free online dating site, I turned him down. He is active in many free online dating sites and has many friends from all over the world. After few days, I found him with his girl-friend in the same café where I had been for a business appointment and I was jealous of him.

That night I decided to give a shot to free online dating and try my luck out there on the web. I didn’t find it difficult to create my profiles in some of the sites that I found worth joining. I was amazed to see the websites’ designing and their functionality; they are user-friendly and have different options that you can select from- messaging, chatting, voice or video chatting, blogging. On the very first day, I started with getting familiar with the different features of the sites. Then, gradually I searched for the profiles that matched my criteria and started to send messages.

Soon, I had many names added to my “friends list”; some of them are from the same city where I’m in and some from the other cities. But I found most of them were easy to get along with. My life took a new turn after that; I would spend hours together chatting with my online friends, answering their messages and making new friends. It was then that I realized why my younger brother was crazy about free online dating.

I have met a girl through free online dating; she’s from our neighboring city. We have several dates outside free online dating sites. She is extremely beautiful, smart and has mastered the art of Kung-fu. She makes me feel comfortable and we have good times whenever we have met on or outside free online dating. I had no idea that one can fall in love using free online dating. But it happened with me and I’m going to embark on another phase of life with the girl I met on free online dating site.

Anyways, free online dating is the best option for anyone, like me, who can’t get their partner in their surroundings.