The world has become much busier and changed so much over the past several decades. Long gone are the days of easy living and the close family style communities. The old TV shows bring back comforting memories of a simpler time, a safer time, where the good guy always came out on top. The days when it was safe for a woman to walk home any time of day or night, for kids to play out in the neighborhood no longer exist in most places. So we wonder, as a lady how do you meet a man and know you are safe? Bars may not be the best idea, we all know that everyone looks better with our beer goggles on. Dating a co-worker can be tricky, if things don’t work out it’s pretty awkward. So what is the answer for all the singles out there?Post a personal ad online, I suggest the site KissCafe.com.
When you post your personal ad on a quality site like KissCafe, you are taking a big safety step. The dating site checks out the members. They only allow quality people to be on their dating website, and remove anyone who is being inappropriate. With your personal ad you get your own profile page, it is your choice how much personal information you allow to be public. You can search thousands of profiles for the man or woman of your dreams. Plus the dating website takes the info from your personal ad and the personal ads of other members and notifies you of matches based on common interests, political views and religious preferences among other information from your profile.
Another reason that online dating and posting personal ad online is a safe way to meet a date is that by meeting online you can spend as long as you like chatting and getting to know other people before actually meeting them face to face. If you should decide that you don’t like a person, you can simply block them from viewing your profile. No worries of retaliation, because it you were smart you did not give them your adress or other personal information.
Even though posting your personal ad online is a safe way to date, there are other safety precautions you need to take. You should make sure that you are completely comfortable with your match before agreeing to meet in person. When you do feel comfortable enough to meet in person, meet in a very public place. Your first meeting may be more comfortable for both of you if you both have a few friends come along. Remember there is safety in numbers. Also when it is time to go home, go home alone. Do not give your address out until you have been on enough dates to really know the other person and know they are safe. Have a couple of friends or close co-workers meet your match and get their input, what kind of vibes did they feel about your match? Have fun with personal ad and your online dating experience, but please do use common sense and be safe.
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