Thursday, December 18, 2008

Making a Fresh Start of Life with Free Online Chat

After accepting a new job in a distant locale, city life has become extremely difficult for me. There were too many hectic days and lonely nights, and to top that, whenever I called my friends up back home, they were either too busy to chat or with their boyfriends. I may have a nice place, and a high paying job now, but I wasn’t enjoying life. All I could do was watch TV or drop into a local pub.

The other day, while thinking of an innovative to spend my leisure time, I caught the idea of free online chatting. I was quite a regular in free online chat when I was in college. During those days, I would spend hours in front of the computer meeting new people and talking to them through free online chat. Though in retrospect, the sacrificed study time might have helped, I’m still glad I did it. During those days it was my passion to meet people from every corner of the world; I was enjoying my time in free online chat. And I had so many friends to share my feelings with.

It makes sense to go back now, I mean, I am lonely, and an online group of friends might really help me get back on my feet. I jumped on later that night; I started searching for all my old friends who I used to chat with, surprisingly, some of them are still there, I was ecstatic to hear from them. I contacted them all one by one; all of them give me warm responses. I quickly realized that this free online chat was a great way to meet new people from my city, people I could hang out with on a daily basis.

It’s been about two weeks since I jumped back on here, and today, I have planned a date with one of the boys living in the same city as me. He seems to be a flirt, but then, it is just a fun thing for me. While talking to him on free online chat he said that he finds me gorgeous and intelligent, he wants to go for a date. It should be a nice experience.

Because I don’t know much about him, I suggested him to meet in a mall where there are a lot of people around. Who knows, worst case scenario, he isn’t the man of my dreams but I have a new friend in my city. Thanks to free online chat

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Free Online Dating Service Helps Healing Old Wound

I never thought I would find the love of my life through a free online dating service. I have been an active member in this free online dating community for quite some time and even dated a few gorgeous girls, but they were all causal flings. Maybe I wasn’t looking to be in a serious relationship. My last experience was a bit too much for me to handle. I was in a relationship for 3 years and life was proceeding smoothly. I even denied a very lucrative job offer in another city so I could be with her. She was a part-time model and wanted to make it big in the fashion arena. I used to finance her portfolio shoots and even accompanied her many times to her shoots. I felt a bit out of place in there but I wanted her to be happy and that’s why would support her every decision. I look back now and laugh at it all, what I saw as love, she saw as an opportunity to take advantage of.

Gradually she would accept longer and further away shoots, financed by me, and would be absent for days without telling me a thing. Still I tried to make it work for both of our sakes, but one day I learned she had been seeing another man on the side. A million thoughts raced through my mind about what to do. I had been experiencing a great deal of pain at this time, and decided to void all cheques she had written to hers and other agencies, I threw her out of my home and sold the car I had bought for her.

Since that week, I’ve learned to not put so much trust in women; I refrain from emotional attachment now. Casual flings and physical intimacy for some time is ok, but nothing more than that. Then I met Julia through a free online dating service. Before we met physically, I chatted a couple of times with her on the free online dating service chat room. I must say I was attracted by her intellect even from the first time we met on free online dating service chat. She was a dietician, part time writer, and painter. She also did a lot of charity work and was a very serious human rights activist. There was a special charm even in our common conversation.

Before we decided to meet over dinner I had already made up my mind not to be romantically involved with her. But by the time we had met, I found myself already growing fond of her, her intelligence and personality was simply amazing. She was gorgeous no doubt, but more than that she was a lovely human being and her honesty and straightforwardness was something to admire.

It’s been three months since we first met on the free online dating service and we are still going strong. I’m not sure what lies ahead for us, but as of now we are happy and its all thanks to the free online dating service.

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Paradise Regained At Online Dating Sites

Life was hard and uncertain after I lost my wife Susan in a car accident. Fortunately, my son and I survived the crash, but our life was never the same. Though I was leading a lonely life, I was more concerned about my son Thomas. Bringing him up and managing my job schedule simultaneously was a difficult task. Often my mother and neighbours would help us, but times were still tough. Anyhow, I had to look for a permanent solution for this problem and solve my loneliness at the same time. All my friends and family members suggested me to remarry. They tried to fix some dates for me, but nothing worked out. I didn’t like any of those girls, none could compare to Susan. Finally, Arnold, a guy from my neighbourhood, suggested that I visit the online dating sites.

Well, I had never thought of the option earlier. I had heard from my friends that online dating sites were a great place to meet people from different parts of the world. I never had even considered it before, besides, I was too busy with my job and family to think about that. Apparently, many of my friends have been members of the online dating sites and they seem to be having a lot of fun. Some of them also have succeeded in settling down with “the one”. “Could it really work for me?” I asked myself. I had to rid myself of this loneliness, so, finally, I decided to check out a few online dating sites that my friends used.

It didn’t take me long to pick up the concept, I was having fun creating profiles and speaking to other women again, it was refreshing. I was hoping to find someone that was similar to Susan, (personality-wise) it was bit difficult, but I found there are many interesting profiles. I sent messages to some of my selected profiles and was excited when all of them replied. I continued sending messages to them. After some days, I had managed to befriend three beautiful girls, they are still my friends. All of them are well educated, intelligent and successful. Within 2 months of our friendship and online chats I exchanged phone numbers with each of them and expressed my interest to meet them individually.

When, I met Liza, the first girl I met on the online dating sites, I felt that she is the one I was looking for. She has a beautiful figure and gorgeous look, but what I really respected was her intelligence. It was during our first meeting that I fell in love. She was affectionate and responsible; she was also excited to meet Thomas.

We’ve been seeing each other regularly for about 9 months now and I’m going to propose to her during our next date. I had no idea that online dating sites could ever help me find another person to love.

My thanks go out to online dating sites!

Monday, December 15, 2008

Meet your Soul-mate at Online Dating!

I found my soul-mate through online dating. It was a close friend that had introduced me to online dating. I was quite successful, you know like any other woman in Canada in her early 30s. I had a successful career, a decent home filled with decent furnishing. But never had much luck with relationships. I’ve dated a few guys, but it just never works out. Friends often compare me to Sarah Jessica Parker from Sex and the City, and the constant failure in relationships has made me pretty desperate. I was so sick of dates ending in failure.

I was on the verge of breakdown, when I bumped into a friend in a cocktail party. We were once very close during university as we shared the same dorm room. But afterwards we lost touch. It was great to see her after such a long time. But I must confess when she introduced me to her boyfriend, I was a bit jealous. He was quite a handsome man! Lucky girl, when I complemented her, she asked me about my date. I responded with “Well, I am single for a while,” but that’s all I could say. When she repeated the question, I smiled and tried to avoid the subject. She called me the very next day and asked me to meet for a cup of coffee. Even though I had second thoughts of about not going to meet my friend, I gave in for old time’s sake.

Any ideas what the first thing she asked me was? I wouldn’t have shared my problems with anyone else, but she was a good friend, and I trusted her, so I told her of my failure in relationships. After listening patiently, she casually suggested that I try online dating. Even before I could protest, she insisted that online dating is much different than normal dating. She explained how she had been having the same trouble, but that she heard from a trustworthy friend about a reliable online dating site, so she gave it a shot, and that’s how she met her current boyfriend. I decided to try it out later on that night.

I created my profile in a couple of popular online dating sites. I met and dated quite a few interesting guys through these online dating sites before I met my husband Paul. We dated for about 6months and then got married last Christmas. Today I can’t ask anything more in life for I have found my best friend and soul-mate in Paul. Thank you online dating; you’ve brought sunshine into my life!

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Another Aspect of Free Dating Sites

I think the concept of free dating sites has been integrated into the life of almost all individuals. Sometimes, I feel the free dating sites are taking us a step ahead in this age of new technologies. I am regular to these free dating sites, not only to meet people through online chat but also for reading and posting blogs, and sharing information.

Earlier, when I was using free dating sites, it was just for the sake of fun. I was discussing about the girls I met on these sites with my friends. All my friends had also registered to free dating sites and we were having great fun. I had many online friends- some from the same country or state and others from some different countries. I have many experiences- good and bad- pertaining to the free dating sites. But, fun was the end product of every experience. After night-long conversation with the girls through online chat, it was exciting to discuss it with friends in the morning.

As all my friends were discussing about their dates with the girls they met through free dating sites, I was inspired to have my dating experience. I remember the dates with some of the girls I met on the free dating sites, who belonged to the same city I am in. I was feeling so excited and driven. I had my maximum date with Alice, she was not hot but somehow, I liked her deep blue eyes and thick lips. In fact, both of us shared same hobbies and interests. I could get along with her quickly and we developed a strong relationship. After a number of dates, phone calls, and chatting through free dating sites, I proposed her for marriage. Last week we celebrated our third marriage anniversary with our six-month-old daughter Jenny.

I’m still active on the free dating sites, these days, not for fun or dates; they are now things of the past. Of course, I have many friends who I meet through free dating sites. But, with the busy schedules of job and family I barely get time to meet them personally. However, I frequent to the free dating sites to read some of the interesting blog posts. Many people share their funny experience, sometimes I also add to the blog posts from my experience. I find it interesting and motivated to write tips for the newbie daters of the free dating sites. My regular contributions to the dating sites have made me an active member and sometimes I find people asking me advice and suggestion on dating. In a nutshell, I stick to these free dating sites for one or the other reason.


Free dating sites are fun and anyone out there on these sites ought to know the art of conversation to start an awesome journey of online dating and make friends. But my suggestion is to go though the instructions on the free dating sites carefully for safe dating experience. Wish you good luck!

Looking for Dates? -Turn to Dating sites

When my family moved to Canada during my junior school days, I was very happy. No doubt big cities offer a better living standard but I was curious to explore the life style that big cities had. Well it’s been a decade since we moved here. Now it’s more like my own place. I finished my studies here and have many friends over the years. But one thing I couldn’t crack in and that is dating. It might sound strange, but when it comes to dating, I have always been out of luck! You won’t believe I have adopted every possible trick to woo the girls I date. Starting from buying drinks to bringing bouquet and even taking my date for expensive dinner, have tried it all. But at times, maybe I’m not interesting enough for my date or at times; she doesn’t turn out to be of my type. Before you start assuming me of hopeless type, let me clarify that I’m not all that bad looking. I might not be a girl’s dream guy, Brad Pitt, but I’m just like any other average looking guy of my age.

Of lately I also started feeling a bit awkward to join my friends over dinner or a drink at the local bars coz they would be with their dates and girl friends while, I would be only one there without any date. Some of my friends even tried to set me up with their girl friend’s best friends. But even that didn’t work out. Now I even started to think that there is some serious problem in me. May be I need to go for a makeover or what? That was when I came across the dating sites concept one day. I was just referring net for some project work, when I stumbled upon an article about the dating sites. The author had written how the dating sites come as savior for lonely hearts. I got curious and when I did a bit of research to know something more about dating sites, I was shell shocked to see tens of thousands of dating sites having millions of profiles on them.

Many of the dating sites were also free, which means user doesn’t have to make a hole in his pocket to woo a girl to date. The dating sites have all provisions of registering, sending mails, messages to other profiles and one can join the chat room to initiate chat with his/her proposed date. I went through a couple of profiles on the dating sites, and had a difficulty to judge which one is better than the other for they were all so good. Wow, the dating sites seem to be rocking! I wonder, what took me all this time to get to know about it, I should have been here much before. Anyways, as they say better late than never, I am gonna try my luck on the dating sites tonight. Who knows I might be last time lucky here, and even if I don’t, at least I can chat with some Hot, gorgeous girls on these dating sites.

Free Dating Site Helps Coming out Of Life’s Gloominess

All thanks to free dating site, today I am leading a content life. I don’t know where life would be if I hadn’t come across free dating site. Few years back, I was living life to the fullest had everything that any girl of my age wants in her life. At 28, was quite successful in my corporate job, was financially independent, had the most adorable boyfriend. Guess could not have asked for anything else in life.

Then suddenly the 9/11 terrorist attack happened and it changed my world overnight. My boyfriend, George was one among those few unfortunates who couldn’t make it. When I got the news of George’s death from a common friend, at first I thought it was some kinda prank George is playing with me. How could any terrorist be able to storm into and create so much havoc? But when my constant trial to get in touch with George proved futile and the news reports flashed on television, it created a chill inside me. No, it can’t happen to George, I mean how could he go like this? I was 2months pregnant then and we were even planning to get married shortly. When the news about George’s death was confirmed I collapsed and when I regained my consciousness 3days later i had another loss to bear. I lost my baby in the miscarriage. Jesus Christ, as if my sorrow wasn’t enough, you took away my baby too!

Next couple of months passed in getting over depression. George’s memory was haunting me all the time. My close knit friends were always there for me. But no matter how they tried to cheer me up, there was a constant void in my life which I knew is never gonna fill up. My friends even tried to send me on blind date to make me come out of my gloom but in vain. Then one day my best friend, Debbie E-mailed me a link about a free dating site. I had no idea what it was all about. She called me up and told me to just go through the link. I said ok and when I clicked the link, I discovered it’s my own profile on the free dating site. I was furious and was about call my friend when she I received another Email from her.

Debbie wrote she could feel what I am going through. But it’s high time that I should come out of my shock. She had pleaded me to try this free dating site only once. If I don’t like it, she won’t force me ever again. Fine, I said, and besides as the dating site is free, it’s not gonna cost me a penny. I checked my profile which my friend created on my behalf. I had few messages in my inbox. 2 of the messages I replied were online then and invited me to join in chatting. Must confess, it was a completely different experience to chat with the guys in the free dating site. It’s been 2months since then and now, free dating site is indispensible for me. It has given a new meaning to my life.